Don’t even know where to start

The Suburban Domme

Got this email this morning and really…I don’t even know where to start:

My husband showed me your blog a few days ago then told me he wants us to try this. I am willing to try, but I have no idea what I am doing and some of the things he asked for scare me. I don’t even know where to start. We have two small kids and I work a full time job, so I don’t even have the energy for sex and now he wants to add all this other stuff to it. He has this huge wish list on amazon of things he wants us to buy and we just don’t have the extra money to be spending.

I have watched some of the porn he looks at and I don’t have any clothes like that and I am not that skinny. I never was that…

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2 thoughts on “Don’t even know where to start

  1. I wanted to drop by and say thank you for the reblog.

    I have times… where I feel like I am “out of sync” with the kink world…….not sure where I fit in, while trying to get a different style of message out about kink and how some people are trying to survive a kinky partner they live and love with……when they aren’t kinky ( or as kinky) as their partner. Thank you for the opportunity to reach a wider crowd.


  2. I really appreciated your post. I discovered that I was kinky & unfortunately, things didn’t go well with my husband. Obviously, that wasn’t the only problem in our relationship, but it contributed to the end of it. We are still friends, and I love him as a person & father. I am happier now, but I would have been happy if we could have negotiated something.


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